Exploring St. Louis

If you come to St. Louis to visit us and/or spend some time in the area, there are a ton of things to do! Schedule permitting, we may be able to accompany you on some of these adventures or just provide a comfortable place for you to stay while you’re here. If you prefer a little more room/privacy (or we don’t know you!), our apartment complex offers a fully-furnished apartment for rent for a day, week, or whatever you need. Also, be aware that starting in August, we’ll be caregiving our infant grandson Tues-Fri most weeks, so our availability will be more limited during the day.

You won’t be able to do it all, so choose what works best for you depending on your available time, health, interests, kids or no kids, budget, the weather, etc. For those with limited time, here are some things close by (walkable or a short drive from our apartment) …

  • Apartment pool (however, guests are not allowed to use the fitness center)
  • 24/7 Coffee bar and internet/fireplace room in the apartment lobby
  • Excellent, wooded walking/jogging trails – Riparian Trail, Central Park, Monarch Levee Trail, River’s Edge Park Trail, etc. – I’ve done them all!
  • Amazing, massive new playground – Central Park
  • Fishing – Central Park
  • Chesterfield Family YMCA
  • Chesterfield Amphitheater – concert venue, some free (looking forward to the ELO Tribute band next month!)
  • Chesterfield Family Aquatic Center
  • Chesterfield Antique Mall
  • St. Louis County Library
  • Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse, East Coast Pizza, Chick-fil-A, Kaldi’s coffee, Red Lobster, Brick House Tavern, Annie Gunn’s, 54th Street, Firefly Grill, Syberg’s, GIO Modern + Italian, Buzzetta’s Italian, Sauce on the Side, El Salto Mexican, Mellow Mushroom, French Creperie, Edgewild, Stoney River Steakhouse, Billy G’s, Black Salt & Taj Palace (both Indian), The Old Spaghetti Factory, Siam Thai, Bishop’s Post (best patio in the region), YaYa’s Europ Bistro, MiMi’s Café, The Original Pancake House, Duck Donuts and, if you don’t mind blowing up like a Hezbollah pager… Taco Bell! 
  • Marcus Movie Theater… has those horizontal reclining seats that almost put me to sleep two nights ago… during Mission Impossible!
  • The Largest Outdoor Shopping Mall in the U.S. – at “The Valley” – Walmart, Old Navy, Golf Galaxy, Target, Dick’s, Kirkland’s, Bath & Body, Michaels, Best Buy, Sam’s, Lowe’s, World Market, Home Depot, etc.… you get the idea. If that’s not enough, we’re 5.9 miles away from the St. Louis Premium Outlets.
  • Top Golf
  • The Factory – music venue (Everything from Michael W. Smith to David Lee Roth! Upcoming acts include: Little River Band, Boz Scaggs, John Legend, The O’Jays, and if you want to “do a little dance”, K.C. and the Sunshine Band!)
  • The District – shopping, restaurants, outdoor big screen TV w/ sporting events
  • Main Event indoor playground
  • Go Play! indoor playground
  • Slick City Action Park – family fun center
  • All of the above are walkable or within 2.5 miles of us!

If you are willing and able to branch out farther, there are SO MANY things to see and do! You can Google the ones you’re interested in for hours, prices, parking and other details, so this blog doesn’t turn into a guidebook!

Note: I’m not including the area’s best hiking/running/walking trails as I’m systematically working (hiking/running) my way through the book 60 Hikes Within 60 Miles of St. Louis. That’s a blog for another time. I’m also not going to get into the restaurant scene, other than what’s above/very close to us. Again, that lends itself to a separate blog. However, when in doubt, go to The Hill and get Italian food. Or Pappy’s Smokehouse.

Here, then, are 40 things to do in and around St. Louis… a little something for everyone:

  • Gateway Arch National Park – an awe-inspiring spectacle, towering over the Mississippi Riverbank—STL’s #1 tourist attraction. Features a tram ride to the top, the museum of westward expansion, a documentary movie, and beautiful grounds to walk. The park and museum are free.
  • Forest Park / St. Louis Zoo – take a leisurely stroll through the 1300-acre park—one of the largest urban parks in the United States. (Nearly 500 acres larger than New York City’s Central Park!) It contains the St. Louis Zoo and its famous polar bear and penguin/puffin exhibits. Both the zoo and park are free, although to save on parking, you’ll want to park at the Turtle Playground across the street (and let your kids play on the giant turtle statues). You can also rent a paddle boat, kayak, paddleboard, or canoe and enjoy Post-Dispatch Lake and Forest Park by water. Be sure to paddle up and stop at The Boathouse for lunch. 
  • Sports Galore! – We’ll start at Busch Stadium with our very own St. Louis Cardinals! Go Cards! If hockey is more your thing, we’ve got the St. Louis Blues! If you prefer soccer, we’ve got the St. Louis CITY SC! We’ve also got the St. Louis Battlehawks (UFL), the World Wide Technology Raceway (NASCAR, Indy Car, etc.), the St. Louis Ambush (indoor soccer), and the Atlantic 10 conference’s St. Louis University Billikens!
  • St. Louis Science Center – With over 750 exhibits in a complex of over 300,000 square feet, it is among the largest of its type in the United States. Check out the OmniMax movies, planetarium, laser light shows, discovery room, life science lab, and more! Free admission, optional fees for movies and such.
  • Grant’s Farm – one of the most popular family activities in St. Louis. Hang out with the retired Budweiser Clydesdales and use a skid steer to clean up behind them. There are also 900 other animals including tortoises, cows, deer, zebras and more. Free admission.
  • St. Louis Art Museum – One of the nation’s leading comprehensive art museums. Its collection includes exceptional art from virtually every culture and movement, and its temporary exhibitions range from native art to French landscapes and global textiles to ancient armor. You can view works from Picasso to Van Gogh, and it won’t cost you any “Monet”. 
  • The Magic House—St. Louis Children’s Museum – Engage your children with hands-on learning experiences that spark imagination, pique curiosity, enhance creativity and develop problem-solving skills within a place of beauty, wonder, joy and magic. Free Family Night every third Friday of the month from 5-8 p.m.
  • City Museum – at this giant playground made from repurposed objects, you can slide down a 10-story spiral slide, sit in the cockpit of an old plane, climb inside a treehouse, crawl through tunnels, and more. Plan on spending a couple of hours here at least to see it all – there are surprises at every turn. 
  • Theater and Performing Arts – Need a culture fix? Options include the Fabulous Fox Theater, The Muny (outdoor theater), STAGES St. Louis, The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis, Touhill Performing Arts Center, Kirkwood Performing Arts Center, and the Grand Center Arts District. 
  • Riverboat Cruise – take a 2-3 mile ride in a riverboat down the Mighty Mississippi! The tour will tell you about the different bridges you pass under (there are 5 or 6) and the barges on the river along with some other historical facts. 
  • Big Muddy Adventures – want to get even closer to the Mighty Mississippi? If so, this world-class St. Louis-based adventure company and professional outfitter will hook you up with its full fleet of canoes and kayaks. Whether you want to do a riverfront adventure in downtown St. Louis, embark on a full moon float to a beautiful, uninhabited river island or add a bike ride along the Katy Trail to your aquatic adventure, river trips with Big Muddy Adventures are always memorable.
  • Anheuser Busch Brewery Tour – a deep dive into beer-making, if that’s your thing, and an opportunity to visit the Clydesdales in their state-of-the-art stables. You can also try the toasted ravioli—a St. Louis staple—at the on-site Biergarten Restaurant.
  • The Old Courthouse – next to the Arch. Now open to the public after a major renovation. The infamous Dred Scott v. Sanford landmark decision of the Supreme Court was held right here in this very courthouse. Free.
  • The Basilica of St. Louis – aka the Old Cathedral – Tour and admire the beauty of the first cathedral built west of the Mississippi River. Free.
  • Missouri History Museum – One of the most visited history museums in the nation. Discover the city’s baseball history from the Browns to the Cardinals, see “The Spirit of St. Louis” — sister plane to Lindbergh’s, explore life on the Mississippi River, marvel at the magnitude of the 1904 World’s Fair, learn about the Civil Rights movement, and much more. Admission? Free.
  • Missouri Botanical Garden – Enjoy, by walking or taking a tram tour, two miles of plants from around the world. Don’t miss the Children’s Garden on the inside, the splash pad, and the hands-on activities and interactive exhibits.
  • City Gardens – vibrant, urban, free, one-of-a-kind playground for all ages. Enjoy and explore the captivating sculptures, relax by the fountains, watch the kids run through the splash pad or swim in the pool, climb through tunnels, slide down slides, and just simply unwind. The calming paths also light up in the evening making it a lovely spot for an after-dinner walk. 
  • Bellefontaine Cemetery – Some of you creepy people are into cemeteries. I get it. This 276-year old gem has several architecturally significant monuments and mausoleums and has free admission, unless you are dead and plan to stay. The cemetery contains 314 acres and over 87,000 graves, including those of William Clark, Adolphus Busch, Thomas Hart Benton, William S. Burroughs, Rush Limbaugh, and many Union and Confederate soldiers from the American Civil War. (Note: None of the locals are buried there. They’re not dead yet.)  
  • Lemp Mansion – Still not spooked? Test your bravery and tour one of the United States’ top 10 supposedly haunted properties.
  • South City Hospital – Still not spooked? Drive by this now closed hospital on South Broadway in the Dutchtown neighborhood at night. (Actually, don’t do that.) Previously known as St. Alexius Hospital, the facility was founded by the Alexian Brothers and had a capacity of 178 bed at the time of its closing in 2023. It played a significant role in the (alleged) exorcism that inspired the famous movie “The Exorcist”. The exorcism, conducted in 1949 on a 13-year-old boy, began at his aunt’s house and later moved to the Alexian Brothers Hospital for a month-long period. 
  • Union Station – Ride the St. Louis Wheel, a 200-foot high observation wheel with 42 fully enclosed, climate controlled gondolas that seat up to eight riders each. Wheel passengers will take three to four rotations high over the St. Louis skyline. If heights aren’t your thing, visit the on-site St. Louis Aquarium, play mini golf, view the mirror maze and fire and light show, and maneuver the ropes course.
  • World Chess Hall of Fame. Whether you’re a nerd or not, this is a cool, free place to stop and check out. If nothing else, get a photo with the world’s largest chess piece! 
  • Purina Farms – Take a short 35-minute drive outside the city to one of the most fun places for kids in St. Louis. The whole family will love watching the dog show filled with super-talented canine friends and walking through the training center. Purina Farms is also home to horses, sheep, cows, chickens, and more that you can interact with. Free.
  • Cahokia Mounds State Historic Site – Take a short drive across the river and tour the central section of the largest prehistoric Native American city north of Mexico. Occupied from 700 to 1400, the city grew to cover 4,000 acres, with a population of between ten and twenty thousand at its peak around 1100.
  • Eckert’s Farm – While you’re across the river, go pick your own apples, pumpkins, and such, ride the wagon, shop the country store, and eat at the country restaurant. If you’re with the Johnsons, you’ll also play a pick-up game of Bocci using mild to moderately rotten apples. If you still have gas in the tank, stop by nearby Mascoutah High School, where I played football circa ’80-’81. Go Indians!
  • World’s Fair Pavilion – have a picnic in this pavilion that was originally built for the 1904 World’s Fair. Free.
  • Museum of Transportation – Check out the collection of over 300 locomotives, cars, airplanes and other vehicles. Kids will love the ‘Creation Station Express’ miniature train ride and the ‘Throw Mama from a Train’ interactive exhibit.
  • Grand Basin – A beautiful spot for some photos with water cascades. An ideal place to just relax and reflect. Free.
  • Museum of Illusions – An interactive experience that will trick your eye, entertain your mind, and show you the exciting science behind illusions!
  • National Blues Museum – Immerse yourself in the birthplace of the blues genre, discover stories about legendary musicians, and the cultural impact the blues has on music around the world. 
  • The Jewel Box – A greenhouse with vibrant floral displays. Truly a hidden gem. $1 admission.
  • Laumeier Sculpture Park – A unique and immersive outdoor art experience. Good place to capture artistic photos with the sculptures as your backdrop. Free.
  • James S. McDonnell Prologue Room – the kids will love checking out the large-scale models of planes found here while learning about the history of aviation. Free.
  • Loan Elk Park – Scenic wildlife habitat with tranquil drives, hiking trails, and picnic spots where elk, bison, and deer roam. Free.
  • Moto Museum – rare and vintage motorcycles galore! Free.
  • Miniature Museum – This is the place for anything miniature. Have a little fun and make this museum into a scavenger hunt or a game of “I Spy”. 
  • Campbell House Museum – Built in 1851, the first house in the elegant Lucas Place neighborhood, the Campbell House was the home of renowned fur trader and entrepreneur Robert Campbell and his family from 1854 until 1938. 
  • Ulysses S. Grant National Historical Site – Also known as White Haven, the site commemorates the life, military career and presidency of Ulysses S. Grant. Five historic structures are preserved at the site, including the childhood home of Ulysses’ wife, Julia Dent Grant. Free.
  • Soulard Farmers Market – Established in 1779, this is the oldest farmers market west of the Mississippi and is open Wednesday-Saturday. Free.

While visiting St. Louis, you simply must check out one or more of the fascinating, historic neighborhoods. Janet and I pick a neighborhood and go walk it in search of interesting bookstores, coffee shops, and eateries. As an example, we recently went to Cherokee Antique Row and visited Hammond’s Books (straight out of a Stephen King novel), Riverside Architectural Antiques (never seen anything quite like it), Myrtle Haus books (with a fireplace!), The Mud House coffee shop, and Taqueria Hectorito (the best street tacos you’ll ever consume). Maplewood offered a festival, The Book House, and La Cosecha Coffee, featuring a bakery in the back with free samples! Central West End served up Left Bank Books, Northwest Coffee Roasting Company, and The Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis. We’ll update this blog annually as we explore new ‘hoods in the area. For now, though, check out this link for some options: https://explorestlouis.com/plan-your-trip/neighborhoods/

Confession time: while visiting Kyle and Laci a few years ago, they took us on a walking tour at dusk around Clayton, just west of Forest Park. As we walked by the beautiful Concordia Seminary (a primary seminary for the Lutheran Church–Missouri Synod; founded in 1839), I noticed a large crowd of people gathered on the upper grounds outside the institution. Curious, and going against the urging of my family, I climbed the hill like the 20th Maine at Little Round Top on Day 3 at Gettysburg. Kyle followed me with the earnestness of a 28-year-old preacher following an aging parent with declining cognitive abililites. At the top, we discovered what appeared to be a freshmen/parent mixer, and I slipped into the back of the line at the large food tent, with my incredulous junior progeny in tow. I smiled, lovingly grasped the back of Kyle’s neck, and gave reasurring nods to other anxious parents. Ten minutes later, Kyle and I descended the hill, each toting a styrofoam container with a brat, french fries, German potato salad, and a packet of spicy mustard! No guts, no glory!

I hope this blog will inspire you to come see us in St. Louis! Did you notice how many things are free? Even the Lutheran brats! We actually live in Chesterfield, a very safe, low-crime city about 21 miles west of downtown St. Louis.

As for St. Louis… yes, like most cities, there are some rough, dangerous, high-crime parts of town, especially at night. We avoid those areas, especially at night.

So come see us! We might even show off our adorable grandsons!

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Circling the Herd

“Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” – Philippians 2:4

On Monday, a 5.2-magnitude earthquake struck San Diego County, knocking boulders onto county roads and overturning groceries from store shelves. What made national news was not the earthquake itself but rather the reaction of a herd of elephants at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park. As the ground shook and startled the animals, the three older elephants scrambled to encircle and protect the two 7-year-old calves. Even after the rumbling subsided, the older pachyderms—with their unique ability to detect sounds through their feet—stood watch with their ears spread and flapping. Mindy Albright, a curator of mammals at the park, said that once the elephants form their alert circle, “they sort of freeze as they gather information about where the danger is.” 

The instinctive reaction of these senior elephants reminds me of some other “alert circles” I’ve witnessed recently. On the same day as the earthquake, I watched a tiny toddler attempt a dash for freedom at a crowded food pavilion at the Saint Louis Zoo. Her watchful father knew the danger, noticed the attempted escape, and lovingly tracked the child down and corralled her in his arms. Had he not noticed his fleeing child, I—a stranger—would have attempted to rescue her from the menacing pink flamingos eyeballing her.

More seriously, a friend of mine recently tried to pick a member up to attend worship services on Sunday morning, his customary practice. (The week prior, he had found the man unresponsive due to a medical condition and had to call an ambulance.) This time, when a stranger and his two companions answered the door, my friend’s alert level went up. He sensed something wasn’t right. One of the guys, unhappy with my friend’s desire to take the man to church, retrieved a box cutter and threatened my friend’s life. The police were called and the perpetrator was sent back to jail. Since then (and prior to then), several Christians have formed an “alert circle” around our troubled friend to help him physically, spiritually, and emotionally. He is vulnerable—“the least of these” as Jesus calls them—and faces threats all around him.                      

Why care? Why get involved? As the Apostle Paul puts it, each Christian is called to “look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” In 1 Peter 5:8, Peter reminds us to “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” Christians need to regularly circle the wagons around and try to protect those at risk. Sometimes we’re the ones standing guard and other times we ourselves are the vulnerable sheep needing protection.  

Closer to home, my wife and I recently relocated to Missouri to be closer to family—specifically a grandson with another on the way. We hope to be a positive influence on their lives. With threats all around, we’ll stand watch and, along with their parents and others, help form their “alert circle” whenever needed. In conjunction with our move, Janet’s elderly parents, who have been under our care for over five years, moved in with Janet’s middle sister and her husband. Although they’ve always been concerned and involved, now they are on the frontlines—the first line of protection and defense. As the inevitable physical and mental decline of these dear Senior Saints unfolds, Janet’s sister and her husband will offer care and protection. 

Parents and grandparents, alert to danger, form protective barriers around their children and grandchildren. Teachers do the same for their students. Church elders (shepherds) do this for the sheep who make up their congregations, and caregivers do so for those under their care. In each case, we see concerned people standing guard, like those senior elephants, ready to mobilize to protect the ones they love.

The elephants’ actions during the earthquake teach us another lesson. Although the video shows the female calf running for refuge between the adults who raised her, the only male calf remains on the outer edge of the circle. The curator said he was attempting to show his courage and independence. The older female elephant who helped raise him repeatedly taps him on the back and face with her trunk, coaxing him to remain in the herd’s alert circle. Sometimes our protective nurturing of those we love may require more than a gentle nudge. 

In whatever protective roles God has called us to serve, may we faithfully stand watch—ears “spread and flapping”—with those we are charged to protect close at hand.

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Run to the Sound of the Guns

“Are they servants of Christ? I am a better one—I am talking like a madman—with far greater labors, far more imprisonments, with countless beatings, and often near death. Five times I received at the hands of the Jews the forty lashes less one. Three times I was beaten with rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I was adrift at sea; on frequent journeys, in danger from rivers, danger from robbers, danger from my own people, danger from Gentiles, danger in the city, danger in the wilderness, danger at sea, danger from false brothers; in toil and hardship, through many a sleepless night, in hunger and thirst, often without food, in cold and exposure.”  – 2 Corinthians 11:23-27

Nicholas Moore, like other military warriors and first responders, was trained to “run to the sound of the guns.” Training is necessary because the notion is counterintuitive. Our instincts are to run away from the sound of gunfire. We naturally want to escape the burning house rather than enter it. Putting oneself in harm’s way—a counterintuitive action—requires training and courage.

Nicholas Moore had both. He served over a decade in an elite special operations unit within the US Army’s 75th Ranger Regiment on the battlefields of Afghanistan and Iraq. In Iraq, he “participated in the rescue of Private Jessica Lynch, hunted Iraq’s Most Wanted, and experienced brutal street combat, including 160 night-time missions over one 90-day deployment in the insurgent stronghold of Mosul. While serving in Afghanistan, he was also part of the search and rescue operation for Navy SEAL Marcus Luttrell (author of Lone Survivor) and was on the ground again when a Chinook helicopter was shot down resulting in the death of 38 men and one military working dog. It was the single greatest loss of special operations personnel to date.”

Moore tells his riveting and deeply personal story in the appropriately named book, Run to the Sound of the Guns. Readers gain insight on what inspires someone like him to go in the direction of trouble, rather than retreat. Through training and sheer guts, men and women like Nicholas Moore are wired differently than others.

The Apostle Paul, as we learn in the opening passage, possessed similar, counterintuitive instincts. After all the suffering he endured, I wouldn’t have blamed him for wanting to dial back his ministry. I would have understood him curtailing risky activities that brought him pain. Instead, Paul, like Nicholas Moore, repeatedly ran toward the sound of the guns. In 2 Corinthians 12:10, Paul provides his motivation: “For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” 

The most effective Christians I know are the ones who run toward the sound of the guns. One couple adopted a “high risk” child that no one else wanted. Another couple gives up all that is comfortable and familiar to serve as missionaries in a poverty-stricken, third-world country. Others invest in troubled teens, forgotten prisoners, and homeless addicts—people too often neglected due to the high level of difficulty involved. Instinctively, most would prefer to adopt a healthy, well-adjusted child (and there’s goodness in that). If we evangelize at all, better to do so in a safe, middle-class neighborhood. Less potential for gunfire, right?

I want to live counterintuitively. My goal is to be more like Nicholas Moore or, better yet, the Apostle Paul. I want to be involved in ministries that most are unwilling to do. Like Paul, I want to draw strength from hardship and persecution. I want to take risks and take chances for God. I don’t want to appear before Jesus on Judgement Day and hear, “Wow, Steve, you sure played it safe! Didn’t you realize I was right beside you in all those battles you avoided?”

After all Jesus did for us, let’s be bold and courageous. It’s time to get our hands dirty in ministry. It’s time to run toward the sound of the guns!

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Merry Christmas 2024!

Welcome to the Johnson’s 37th consecutive Christmas dispatch! Let’s talk about some beautiful things

I’ve long made fun of over-the-top, doting, bragging grandparents… and now I am one! Janet and I have joined the club. Out of nowhere, the next generation has arrived! Having a grand has given us a boost of energy and renewed purpose. Little Bradford (actually, thick, muscular, 99 percentile length and head-size Bradford) fills a space in our hearts that we never knew was empty. That is truly a beautiful thing. I’ll come back to that.

As for the older generation, Raymond & Shirley, Janet’s parents, continue to live with us and provide blessings and humor to our lives. He struts into the kitchen each morning, with his pajama shirt tucked into his pants, and his pants tucked into his socks—next level old man gangsta! At 91 and 86, they are doing pretty well physically and can still beat us in cards.

I visited my dad and his caregiving wife Gail three times this year. One visit involved three days with him at a rehab center post-surgery, in order to give Gail a respite. Dad’s short-term memory is diminished and he sleeps a lot, but he’s a dear, sweet man. One morning, I sat by his bedside and said, “Dad, what can I get you? You have plenty of money—want a new TV? Want to go on a vacation? Whatever you want, I’ll get it or arrange it for you.” He thought for a moment and said, “Well, there is one thing, Bull. If it’s not too much trouble… I’d love a grilled cheese sandwich and some chocolate milk.” I smiled and said, “You got it, Pops!” The Greek Stoic philosopher Epictetus wrote, “Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.” My dad gets that. Peace and contentment at age 87 is a beautiful thing.

Hiking the Smokies

Speaking of beautiful, inside and out, my darling Janet had a busy, productive year. She taught several Ladies Bible classes and taught our congregation’s 5th and 6th graders. She loves speaking at Christian women’s events and was blessed to be able to do so this year in Kittanning, Pennsylvania and Houston, Texas. My little lady pours her heart and soul into these lessons and listeners. The college version of Janet I remember would never have envisioned herself teaching a Ladies Bible Class, much less speaking to large crowds of women around the country. Janet also went away with a group of lady friends for a cabin weekend in the woods to eat, fellowship, and watch/discuss several episodes of The Chosen. Seeing her spiritual growth and the way God continues to use her in ministry is a beautiful thing.

My year was filled with writing at coffee shops, doing disaster relief work in Valdosta, Georgia, doing prison ministry, hiking (to Rocky Top, Andrew’s Bald, and Charlie’s Bunion in the Smokies), leading a mission trip to Honduras, and teaching/speaking at Eastside and around the country. I spoke at the Kittanning PA church of Christ, the Camp Wiregrass men’s retreat in Alabama, and taught a 12-week course about my Appalachian Trail thru-hike to a local class of home-schoolers. While subbing at Knoxville Christian School, a first grade girl told me I was, “old, squishy, and 26.” She received partial credit… and remains in time-out.

In February, I published Every Scar, A Story: Act I, the first of a planned 3-part series, telling my life story. This first volume covers the first 25 years of my life—growing up in a military family, traveling the globe, falling in love, getting married, becoming a father, and the various highs, lows, and scars involved in such pursuits. Examining one’s life and capturing it in words is a useful, cathartic experience and a gift to future generations. I think everyone should pass on stories and lessons from their life to friends and family, whether that takes the form of a book or just a long note. I hope you’ll consider doing so. Having my youngest son tear up after reading a never-before-heard story about his late great-grandfather was, well, a beautiful thing.

Didasko Children’s Home, Honduras, with two special girls

Other 2024 highlights include:

  • Visiting Bradford (and Kyle and Laci) in January, April, and November in Missouri. On the most recent visit, we celebrated Bradford’s first birthday!
  • Visiting Jason & Rachel in Elkin and Mount Airy (think Mayberry), North Carolina, and doing an amazing 19-mile bike ride with them along Virginia’s Creeper Trail
  • A week vacation in July to Canada with all 7 Johnson’s—Bradford’s 1st visit to another country.
  • Being visited by Kyle and Bradford in Maryville in September. Bradford (like his Uncle Jas, circa 1994) removed Tupperware from cabinets, pushed them around the kitchen floor, and put pieces on his head and in his mouth. He has a bright future.
Go Vols!
  • Celebrating our… wait for it… beautiful 36 years of marriage at Maryville’s swanky RT Lodge (courtesy of friends Kevin & Erika!) and then in Hot Springs, North Carolina, one of my favorite stops on the Appalachian Trail. (Sadly, the town was later devastated by Hurricane Helene flooding.)
  • A wonderful family reunion with Steve’s sibs and their hubbies along 30A in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida.
  • Going to Tennessee Volunteer football and basketball games with Joe and Jan, our friends from Missouri. Vols baseball–national champs! Vols football–made the playoffs! Vols basketball–currently #1 in the nation! Tis a good time to be a Vols fan!
  • A family Thanksgiving gathering at a Kentucky Airbnb, where Steve taught Bradford how to catch a 10-lb catfish!
Creeper Trail Romance

Last week, I visited my dad and his wife in Cincy with my sibs and their hubbies while Janet stayed home to look after her ailing mom. We went to a German-themed Christkindl market in downtown Cincy featuring bratwurst, vendors, an ice skating rink, and scores of costumed workers and visitors. As I exited the restaurant’s bathroom stall after doing my business, I looked over and Santa Claus was exiting the adjoing stall. We made eye contact, and in that moment, in the twinkling of an eye, Christmas became real.

Now for our big news. In April of ’25, we plan to move to Missouri—about 30 minutes west of St Louis! We have absolutely loved living in East Tennessee—our house, neighborhood, church family, friends, the mountains, etc. It’s all good. But the magnetic pull of a grandchild is real and powerful—if you’ve been there, you know. When you add a second grandchild on the way, well, we’re packing our bags! Our military lifestyle always kept us from being able to live near family. That’s about to change. As we enter this prime grandparenting window, we want to be present, whatever form that takes. I’m also “wired” to move every 4-6 years for a change of scenery—new jogging trails, coffee shops, bookstores, parks, neighborhoods, and people. That’s a bizarre concept to most, but the “human crop rotation” approach works for us, gives us a reset, and has allowed us to form friendships with people all over the country. To us, that is a beautiful thing.

Cathy (Janet’s middle sister) and her husband have graciously agreed to take in Janet’s parents for this next season of life. We’ve been busy painting and laying flooring in their Bristol VA home, getting a storage unit, and measuring furniture. The move will not be easy for my in-laws (and the congregation here is not happy to lose these sweet people), but we’re confident God will bless and provide for them in Bristol just as He’s done in Maryville. Their time with family in Virginia, like our time with family in Missouri, has the potential to be a beautiful thing

Gettin’ our Creeper on

Amid this hectic holiday season, may we not lose sight of God sending His only Son into this world to die for messed up people like you and me. Jesus’ sacrifice on a cross and subsequent resurrection gives us hope and, as Andy Dufresne put it in The Shawshank Redemption, “Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things.” 

To which I would add… hope is also a beautiful thing. Merry Christmas, everyone!

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D.R. Valdosta: Miss Cooky

Miss Cooky (with a y) Lundy has seen a lot in her 83 years—she’ll be 84 on Halloween. The Senior Saint has endured open heart surgery, the installation of a pacemaker, blood sugar issues and, two years ago, a broken leg. Ever since Covid arrived, she’s felt the need to listen to worship services on her car’s radio while sitting in the church parking lot. She’s estranged from her only child, two grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren, and lost her beloved husband Paul eight years ago. 

Her scars run even deeper. According to Jenna Fairbrother, a first-time volunteer with the Churches of Christ Disaster Response Team (DRT), Miss Cooky carries considerable baggage. “I was blessed to spend the day with Miss Cooky—my first DRT assignment. She’s originally from Fort Pierce, Florida. She and her twin were the youngest of six siblings, but her twin died at nine months, around the same time as her father. She never knew either of them. She was abused by her mom and grew up thinking the wrong twin had died. Her mother didn’t push back on that narrative and said young Cooky ‘wasn’t valuable.'”

Miss Cooky’s low self-esteem improved some when she fell in love with and married Paul Lundy, the love of her life. Their relationship was partly motivated by Cooky’s desire to get away from her family who wanted to have her committed. Paul was a trucker and the mechanically-minded Cooky helped him maintain his semis. Their first few years were rough because, as Cooky puts it, “He didn’t know how to love me. That took time.”

The two moved from Florida to Valdosta, Georgia, nearly 40 years ago and purchased a house that was built in 1863. All of its pieces were hand cut and her husband remodeled the home—added plumbing, installed a bathroom, and made other improvements. The couple lived there together for over 30 years, secluded in a forest, and filled the place with memories. Sadly, he died eight years ago and Miss Cooky’s world was once again turned upside down.

“I used to sit on the front porch and watch the road, waiting for my husband to come home. And finally, I had to tell myself, ‘Cooky, he’s not coming home. He’s gone. You’ve got to get your life together and go on with it.’”

Cooky’s attempts to move on with her life were dealt another blow when Hurricane Helene roared through town on Friday, September 27, 2024. Helene, the deadliest hurricane to strike the mainland U.S. since Katrina in 2005, took the lives of 228 people (and counting) in the United States, including 33 in Georgia. In Valdosta, terrifying winds of 100+ mph ripped off roofs, mangled metal, and tore up signs. More than 115 structures were severely damaged or destroyed.

Sadly, Miss Cooky’s home was not spared. The awful storm dropped a 42-inch-wide tree on top of her house, crushing her kitchen. The impact destroyed her roof and drove some of the piers that hold up her house deeper into the ground. She was home at the time but, thankfully, God spared her life. 

In the immediate aftermath of the storm, Miss Cooky once again became depressed. No one from her local congregation showed up to help her. (In their defense, the storm knocked out power and wreaked havoc on nearly everyone, so there was a lot of scrambling going on in those first couple of days.) Eventually, an unnamed team arrived to remove the tree and jack up the floor beams to level the house again.

She also heard through the grapevine that the Churches of Christ Disaster Response Team was helping storm victims in the area. When she heard that they could rebuild her kitchen and roof for free, she assumed it was a scam. She contacted a member of her church family who did some research and concluded DRT was legit.

John Albright, a DRT Coordinator for the past eight years, visited Miss Cooky with the necessary paperwork and got a tour of her damaged home. He told her, “We can do this, and it won’t cost you a thing. I’ll have the lumber here tomorrow and will line up a crew. DRT can tear down that wing of the house and rebuild the kitchen and roof and make it whole again.”

Miss Cooky frowned. She explained that her late husband had put his heart and soul into that home. It was, in a sense, an 1860’s shrine to him. It represents him in a very real way to her. She didn’t want anyone removing the remnants of her kitchen. That would be like taking her husband away again.

The DRT crew arrived a couple of days later and determined that they could save her walls. They chained those walls to a truck and pulled them forward to attach to new beams. They added new braces and ceiling joints. In the end, the DRT crew saved two-thirds of the original walls, clapboard siding, and even the square vintage nails. Seeing the finished product, Miss Cooky was more than a little chipper.

She told John, “Before the storm, I was feeling depressed and helpless and down. And y’all just showed up out of nowhere. My friends are telling me that what I’m seeing is an outpouring of love from God and I need to recognize it. Y’all are just like angels God has sent to me. You have healed my body and healed my mind and I feel so much better… because you guys are here helping me.”

John, recalling a devo that morning from Ephesians 2:10, told her, “Miss Cooky, we are God’s workmanship—His very best creation. He was at the top of His game when He made humankind. And He made us for a purpose—to do good works, which He has prepared in advance for us to do.” About that time, a gentleman from Miss Cooky’s church stopped by to donate to DRT. “Y’all are helping Miss Cooky, so we want to help you.” Another unexpected blessing in a week full of them.

After spending time with Miss Cooky, Jenna said, “DRT taught her how to give and receive love. Before that, she was only good at giving love. I can relate to that. I have my own family baggage, and I’m in therapy… I don’t mind you sharing that. I’m working through the 12-step program. One of my issues is allowing myself to receive love. I’m better at dealing with other’s trauma and emotions than my own. Maybe God called me to serve in Valdosta so I could meet, encourage, and be encouraged by Miss Cooky.”

John added, “Prior to the storm, she felt worthless. We have touched this woman and we have brought her back from the emotional brink and that is so much of what we want to do. The devo that morning gave me just the right words to say to her. That’s not coincidence. That’s God at work. And He’s at work all the time. I’m telling you, Steve, God’s at work here and it’s super obvious to me. You can’t mistake it.”

Another DRT group from Pennsylvania visited Miss Cooky and learned that her refrigerator was malfunctioning. She said, “Even before the storm, it wasn’t working right. After a few days, my food got slimy. I haven’t been eating too much.” She told Jenna she had lost 15 pounds over the past few weeks. She apologized for not having her teeth in because her dentures no longer fit her mouth. So, the Pennsylvania team bought her a new refrigerator and a hot plate. Problem solved.

Cooky & Jenna

John, tearing up, commented, “These are the things you hope for. I come here and pray and ask God for things, but I don’t always see the results. The people we help may not have an epiphany until later, if at all. She’d been real upset—thought her church had forgotten her. Thought the world had forgotten her. Thought she had no value. I think we helped change that perspective and that’s about as rewarding as it gets. As I said goodbye to her…” John wiped his eyes again and gathered himself. “She handed me a memento—a square nail from her home.”

Before Jenna departed, Miss Cooky asked her, “Is it too late for me?”

“No, ma’am. You can always learn to receive love—I’m learning that lesson now, just like you. It’s hard to fill another person’s cup from an empty cup.”

“I’m almost 84 and alone. Do you think I still have a purpose?”

“I know God has a purpose for your life, Miss Cooky. There’s a reason he spared you from that storm. Just today, you’ve had a wonderful impact on me.”

Miss Cooky looked around at her new kitchen and wiped tears from her eyes. “Look at my castle, just look at it. But Paul’s not here to enjoy it.”

“That’s true,” Jenna replied. “But you get to enjoy it. You deserve this house. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re not valuable. You are more than worthy.”

Hurricanes and other storms often bring death and destruction. But out of the devastation, God’s blessings emerge. James 1:2-4 reminds us, “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

I suspect, this week, Miss Cooky, John, and Jenna grew in their faith, becoming more steadfast, perfect, and complete. Even in a storm, God is faithful.

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Becoming Like a 1st Grader

Last week I had the opportunity to substitute teach a classroom full of 1st graders at a local Christian school. My wife said I was crazy for taking this on—a “glutton for punishment.” She’s not wrong. Signing up to teach and corral 19 six and seven-year-olds on their first full week of school is fraught with danger. It’s eight hours of non-stop instructing, correcting, and keeping your head on a swivel. At the end of each day, I wanted to lie in a fetal position on the floor of my bedroom closet and not talk to anyone or answer any questions. By Friday afternoon, my appreciation for full-time teachers was at an all-time high. They are underpaid and underappreciated.

Still, it was an amazing week. In Matthew 18:3, Jesus said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” High stakes—He’s got my attention. But what does He mean by that? His charge, on the surface, sounds counter-intuitive. Shouldn’t 1st graders strive to become more like you and me? Perhaps in some ways. But this week reminded me of how much I can learn from a 1stgrader…

1st Graders are dependent on others and know it. These young people are at the mercy of their parents, teachers, and others to provide for them and sustain them. For 450 minutes each day last week, they humbly came to me for help tying shoes, opening milk cartons, microwaving chicken nuggets, making capital letters, and a hundred other tasks. They trusted me to do the right thing and help them solve each challenge. Similarly, God wants us to totally rely on Him. Too often, I strive for self-sufficiency. I pat myself on the back for some achievement, forgetting that every talent and ability I have comes from God. Apart from Jesus—the vine—I am nothing. (John 15:5) I need to empty myself, trust God, and humbly ask Him to fill me and sustain me. Without Him, I’m left with untied shoes and unopened milk cartons.

1st Graders are vulnerable and transparent. On Monday morning, the second day of school, I asked the students to complete a “First Day Feelings with Chester” chart. One by one, they indicated whether, on day one, they were mostly “Excited,” “Happy,” “Sad,” or “Scared.” Eleven of the 19 students, over half the class, admitted to being either “Sad” or “Scared.” Several commented that they missed their parents or were nervous about what to expect on the first day of a new school year. I appreciated their honesty and vulnerability. Too often, when someone asks how we’re doing, we say, “Fine,” even when things are not fine. We put on our happy faces, especially in church settings, and rarely ask for prayers or help. Here’s the problem: I can’t bear your burden (Galatians 6:2) if I don’t know what burdens you, and you can’t do the same for me. Whenever things are not “fine,” a 1st grader will let you know. Let’s learn from them and get the prayers and support we need.

First Day Feelings

1st Graders are loving. Oh, sure, there were moments of unkindness—not sharing or not including someone in a game at recess. But there were far more moments of kindness. As they lined up in the hallway waiting for their turn at the restroom on Tuesday, one young lady informed me that her friend was sad. Sure enough, there was another young lady in line with her head down, crying. I hadn’t noticed her but her friend had. She trusted me to investigate and do something to remedy the situation, which I did. Do we notice hurting friends? Do we do something to help them or involve someone who can? Do we pray for them? Becoming like a child involves having the sweet, caring heart of a child. 

1st Graders are curious and eager to learn. I love the joy on a child’s face when they work hard and finally figure something out. These young people watched and listened intently as I illustrated on the smartboard how prayer is us talking to God and reading the Bible is God talking to us. Later, one girl proudly and correctly used the word “cooperation” in a sentence—a word we had learned that morning. As I asked them questions after each page of a picture book I read to them, every hand went up. Without prompting, most of them thought to grab their little Bibles before going to chapel. Throughout the week, they listened, learned, and wanted me to know that they had learned. Do we have that same attitude toward Bible study? Do we hunger and thirst for righteousness? (Matthew 5:6) Or, in the realm of religion, are we content that we already know all that we need to know? I need a 1st grader’s eagerness to never stop learning, especially about God.

1st Graders are quick to rejoice and quick to forgive. We had a lot of fun last week. I’m finding I often relate more to children than adults—I don’t know what that says about me! I taught these children a class chant. Whenever I said, “Booga, booga, booga!” they said, “Ah, ah, ahhhh!” (I learned that at Air Force basic training.) I let them rename me for a day, and they chose “Mr. Chicken Head”—which caused more than a little confusion when one parent asked her child who taught them that day. At recess, I sat in the grass with a dozen girls and told them fanciful stories that I made up on the fly. They giggled when I informed them that Elf on the Shelf, during the off-season, lives in the pipes under the bathroom. I told them about Santa getting stuck in the chimney on Christmas Eve at “Molly’s” house, but Molly couldn’t hear him because she was snoring. Molly raised her hand and informed me that it couldn’t have been her because she had surgery to remove her adenoids. I stand corrected. We took a hike around the campus, turned over rocks, and chased butterflies. With each discovery and each story, the children laughed. They were full of joy. And when a classmate said or did something unkind to them, they were quick to forgive and move on as if nothing had happened. Do we rejoice in the Lord always? (Philippians 4:4) Do we still marvel at the amazing things in God’s creation? (Psalm 19:1) Do we forgive one another, as the Lord has forgiven us? (Colossians 3:13) I’ve got some work to do. 

“Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”

I get it now.

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Staying on Track

“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”  – 1 Thessalonians 5:11

David Schilling, a local youth minister, stepped onto Knoxville Christian School’s gymnasium floor to conduct chapel. As impressionable students looked on, he retrieved a beach ball and unrolled 30 feet of butcher block paper. He invited his son, a student at the school, to attempt to roll the beach ball the entire length of the paper without it going out of bounds. His son’s first attempt rolled halfway down the paper and then veered off to the left. His next try went two-thirds of the way and then faded off to the right.

Despite his son’s lack of success in completing the challenge, David made the task even more difficult. Halfway down the paper, he tore it in two and put the second half of the pathway at an angle. Unfortunately, his son’s third try was his worst yet. His ball was unable to negotiate the turn and once again went off course.

Life is like that. With all the twists and turns, staying on track seems impossible. There are temptations and bad influences all around us. We face unanticipated hurdles and roadblocks. In 2 Timothy 4:7, the Apostle Paul tells us, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” As difficult as it is to stay on the straight and narrow path, how can we follow his lead and finish the race?

With his son holding the beach ball at the starting line, David invited the entire 1st-grade class to join them on the gymnasium floor. He distributed about a dozen pool noodles to these students and asked them to sit along both sides of the butcher block paper—his son’s path. On his son’s fourth attempt, the beach ball went straight for several feet, and started to veer, but was kept on the path by an eager first-grader clutching a pool noodle. At the tricky turn, another student used an elbow to redirect the ball and keep it on course. To the cheers of the delighted crowd, the ball eventually crossed the finish line, and David’s son raised his fist in victory.

The note from the margin reads: The Christian journey is too difficult to travel alone. Christians need fellow Christians armed with elbows and pool noodles to help keep them on the path of faith. Those nudges are necessary though not always pleasant or appreciated at the time. Other times, Christians need to be the ones offering encouragement to help a friend finish the race. Today, let’s grab our proverbial pool noodles and look for someone to encourage and nudge along to the finish line.

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No Denying

“For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.” – Romans 1:20

Do not let the things you cannot understand overwhelm the things you cannot deny.

Electricity is fascinating to me. In high school Science, we studied the attraction of protons and electrons. A colorful diagram showed electrons moving around. Somehow, that energy moves to conductive wires and travels into our homes and businesses. I can’t explain it. If you handed me the necessary supplies, I couldn’t replicate it. Though I don’t fully understand the wonder of electricity, I can’t deny it. Evidence of its existence is all around me.

Yawning is another puzzling phenomenon. There is no universally agreed-upon theory for why we yawn, even though we all do it. Our best scientists have also been unable to prove why yawning is contagious. When we see someone yawn, we tend to follow suit. Though I don’t fully understand yawning, I can’t deny that it’s real.

There are plenty of things I don’t fully understand in the realm of religion and faith:

  1. How was Jesus fully human and fully divine at the same time?
  2. What exactly will Heaven be like? What will we do all day?
  3. How does God’s providence work? Why does He seem to answer certain prayers but not others?
  4. Why do we still feel guilty after repenting?
  5. How does our triune God function as three persons: the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit?

My inability to fully answer these questions and many others doesn’t disprove the existence of God any more than my ignorance of electricity and yawning disprove those realities. The note from the margin reads: From the precise design of the universe to the intricacies of the human body, God shouts his existence. I see Him in fulfilled Bible prophecies, complex DNA code, innate moral law, and newborn babies.

Electricity exists. Yawning happens. God is real. There’s no denying these things. Do not let the things you cannot understand overwhelm the things you cannot deny.

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Souls on Fire

“Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.” – Jennifer Lee

Reach One, Teach One (R1T1) and Mi Esperanza—two missions we support in Honduras—are, on the surface, very different. They have different missions and address different underlying problems in Honduran society. However, in addition to being faith-based, they have another thing in common. Dalton Hines and Lori Connell, the respective founders and leaders, are dealers in hope. In myriad ways, they help the men and women of Honduras develop marketable skills, a sense of purpose, and hope for the future. Hold that thought.

Dalton and his R1T1 Crew
Lori and friends

Forty-one years ago, Jennifer Lee was a miserable middle-schooler with divorced parents. She was, by her own account, “Always a mess. Stains on my clothes… knots in my hair… chubby. I was born into a very modest life. I was a kid with ADHD, terrible in school. I don’t think people ever thought I could amount to anything.”

Jennifer’s life raft was a VHS tape of Cinderella, rewatched daily for its pep talk in perseverance. “Cinderella was bullied severely and I was bullied. But she stayed true to herself, even when it was really hard. Something about the concept of fighting through it helped me. I think a lot of us get knocked down often, over and over again, in our lives.”

According to Catherine Shoard in The Guardian, “After a few stumbles, Lee ended up in New York with a job in publishing, a postgraduate degree in film, and a young daughter. When Agatha was seven, they decamped to Hollywood so that Lee could do rewrite work on the script for Disney’s Wreck-It Ralph. Two months turned into 12 years; today, Lee is chief creative officer at the company where she once temped. She won an Oscar for Frozen in 2014, which also made her the first woman ever to direct a film (which she also scripted) that made more than $1 billion.” 

How do you go from a young, bullied Cinderella fan to a billion-dollar boss at Disney? You work hard and you never lose hope. Jennifer lived her famous quote, which undergirds our theme for this year’s mission trip: “Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.”

The Apostle Paul had that fearlessness. In Ephesians 6:19-20, he writes, “that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak.” Paul could have asked for many things, including release from prison and creature comforts. Instead, his heart and mind were focused on his responsibility to be an ambassador of the gospel. He wanted to share the Good News boldly and clearly. Through words and deeds, Paul’s fearlessness and hopefulness were on full display. Throughout his ministry, Paul’s soul was on fire.

Our goal on these mission trips is not to turn the people of Honduras into billionaires. No, we’re striving for something far more ambitious and significant. We’d like to see more Hondurans become self-supporting, productive members of society and, ultimately, Christ followers. That same goal has Dalton and Lori in a lifelong pursuit of what sets their souls on fire. They are fearless dealers in hope. 

We should be too.

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Going Home

My friend Tee Bolen is no stranger to poverty. His mom passed away when he was two, at which point his dad moved away to Columbia, SC, and his three siblings and a half-sister were farmed out to various families. Three ended up in orphanages. His grandmother insisted young Tee live with her, and for the next 17 years, they moved at least 17 times. 

“We had no income. We would be evicted from one place and move to another, sometimes back into an earlier place. We were destitute. Everything was a struggle. I remember waking up in the morning and seeing exposed ground through the gaps in the floorboards. We didn’t have anything—only each other. We survived by picking cotton in the cotton fields. I couldn’t provide for us until I turned 12 and got a job in a shoe repair shop. Steve, I know what being dirt poor is like. I’ve been there.”

Now grown and in the final quarter of his life, Tee’s been blessed with a Christian family, Christian friends, and a comfortable standard of living. Driven by his childhood memories, a love for God, and compassion for his fellow man, he is determined to “pay it forward.” He wants to lessen the burden of others in need. For the second consecutive year, Tee and his wife Mary paid for a home to be built for a poverty-stricken person or family in Honduras. When I start to shower praise on Tee for his generosity, he cuts me off.

“Listen, this isn’t about me. This isn’t even my money. This is God’s money. He’s entrusted it to me for a short while, and I think He’s curious what I’m going to do with it. Well, let me tell you what I’m not going to do—keep it all to myself and build bigger barns. Not when there are people around me in need.” 

A desire to “pay it forward” isn’t Tee’s only motivation for donating a home. His friend, Jewel Clifton, is nearing the end of a long battle with cancer.

Two months ago, Tee told me, “Jewel is a dear Sister in Christ. She’s frail and will be getting her heavenly reward soon. I want this house to be built in her honor. As she prepares to move into the room Jesus has prepared for her, someone she’ll never meet will move into an earthly home in Honduras. I doubt Jewel will live long enough to see the home built this summer in her honor, but she’ll know it is coming. I hope that brings her comfort.”

When I informed Dalton Hines, our full-time missionary on the ground in Honduras, of Tee’s donation and Jewel’s situation, his response was immediate. Rather than wait for the summer rotation of mission teams to build the house, Dalton and his local construction crew would complete the project within two weeks. Even better, they would use the project to create a house-building instructional video for future TORCH mission teams to use.

Dalton wasn’t done yet—his brain never rests. He’s as attuned to the needs of others as anyone I’ve ever met. He’s also extremely capable and resourceful—Central America’s MacGyver. On any given day, you’ll find him vetting future homeowners, stocking a tilapia farm, installing a water filtration system for a poor community, or mentoring his young students to build like carpenters and live like Christ.

Dalton suggested his team build the Tee Bolen-donated home for Israel, a 29-year-old Honduran. Although TORCH Missions typically builds homes for families, not older single guys, Israel’s situation is unique. His parents abandoned him as a boy and he is, for the most part, uneducated and borderline special needs. For many years, he bounced around, seemingly unloved. He was homeless—a classic poor beggar, struggling to survive.  

When Israel was 8 years old, he became friends with Christian, whose family agreed to take him in. That was his first big break. Later, as an adult, Israel was allowed to stay in a room on the family compound. Still struggling on many levels, he paid a modest amount for rent but was unable to fully provide for himself or get ahead. Christian’s family continued attending to Israel’s physical and emotional needs with love and acceptance. They are, to him, the eyes, hands, and feet of Jesus. They are the only real family he’s ever had. Their son Christian eventually went to work for Dalton, which would turn out to be Israel’s second big break.

While Dalton and his expert construction crew can build a home for someone in about four hours (three if they’ve had coffee), they took their time on Israel’s new house. The construction lasted several days, with Dalton narrating each phase of construction to the camera for the benefit of future TORCH teams. Over the course of several nights, Israel slept on the building materials to prevent theft. Having been homeless for so many years, he was comfortable being alone, staring into the night sky. I can only imagine what went through his head as the prospect of becoming a homeowner began to take shape.

Dalton and Israel

That brings me back to Tee Bolen, who has never met Israel, Dalton, or Christian and his family. He probably never will, this side of Heaven. He may never make it to Honduras to see Israel’s now-completed home in person. Pictures will have to suffice. But Tee trusts God. He knows that God can do more with his money than he could ever think or imagine. And that makes Tee more than just a friend to me—he’s a role model and a hero.

Friends, we serve an awesome God!

God heard the cries of a homeless, hungry 8-year-old Honduran boy and led him to a loving family.

God touched the heart of an older American man, once poor himself, and led him to make a generous donation.

God gave an American missionary the wisdom and heart to join the various pieces of this puzzle together into a beautiful masterpiece. 

As a result, tonight Israel will fall asleep in his very own home. As he looks down on the wooden floor, there will be no gaps or exposed ground. I picture him smiling.

And sometime soon, Tee’s friend Jewel will get a new body and a new, permanent home—with Jesus by her side. I suspect she’ll be smiling too.

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Not All Who Wander Are Lost